I know, I know… this is a highly controversial subject. Some people cling to their childhoods so strongly (and I am not really one to judge on this) that they are unwilling to believe the heroes they cherished so strongly as young girls are not all that great. Note that while this mostly applies to young girls, there are boys out there who loved the Disney princesses as well, and no, they will not always turn out to be gay. Thanks a lot, stereotyping. Still, I will mostly call the audience girls for this.
This is mostly because most young children like to pick their own gender as role models, so mostly young girls are affected by this problem. The problem is princesses never seem to do much.
Think of all the classic disney movies you have seen. No matter what Disney princess comes to mind, there are three things that set her apart: Looks, singing, and talent for invoking sympathy.
All Cinderella did all day was whatever her stepsisters wanted her to. While a lot of the situation was not her fault, she rarely if ever attempted to take matters into her own hands. When she finally does, it is only with the help of a fairy godmother who was summoned because she cried too much. Are you telling me if I cried enough a nice old magical lady would appear out of thin air, and give me whatever I wanted to make me feel better? Yes, that’s a good lesson to teach a six year old girl, especially if she’s at the store, shopping with her mother.
Ariel saved the Prince from drowning, but did he bother to remember her for that reason alone? No, he tried to find her by finding girls who sing well, to the point where he dumps the girl he’s genuinely interested in because of her personality, for the one who he knows nothing about aside from she can sing.
In Alladin, Princess Jasmine is slightly better than her predecessors, but she still rarely manages to do anything on her own.Alladin may like the princess for her personality and free spirit later on, but in the beginning, he only rescues her because of her good looks.
All in all, while the movies are good classics, and there is nothing wrong with enjoying them, we need to be careful of what behaviors we teach young girls, or else be unsurprised when our children begin to imitate that behavior. Also, please note that princesses such as Rapunzel and Tiana are exempt from this lecture. Perhaps there is hope for the next generation after all.